I musn't of made myself very clear. Aux batt does not help out the main Battery when winching. 400 amps wont flow through the relay cause soon as you winch, the voltage will drop and thus isolate the batteries.
(You winch from the main battery and the Aux is isolated). No current flowing through the relay.
The method I explained is the one ARB recommend (at least in TVL). I had long conversations with them about it.
But as I said, each to their own. I don't think there is one way that suits everyone.
I am not trying or meaning to be disrespectfull in any way, but I have also discussed this with the guys at work and they had many other reasons for doing it the way I have, I just can't remember all the reasons at the moment...must be old age
Rich.