Don't be too quick to throw them away, they could work with some modification.
I fitted them to my 2016 SR with the OEM alloy winch compatible bar & winch. My winch is a Runva11XP premium but it's pretty much the same footprint as the OEM Warn.
The issues I had to get around was cutting down the provided folded brackets on the inside to clear the winch cradle brackets, drilling out the internal threaded nut in the chassis & obtaining longer bolts and nut to go right through (rather than fitting the supplied bolt the wrong way around as instructed and pulling the nut backwards off the inside chassis wall!), minor bending to flatten the wing braces where they sit against recovery points and generally getting better quality bolts, nuts and particularly the washers which were rubbish and soft as cheese and were bending on the forward facing brackets.
Overall I'm happy with the end result and the points themselves are very strong but the package was poorly thought out as you discovered, instructions were incorrect in numerous areas, and the minor hardware poor quality.