Had this same problem last week with the oil filter on so frigin right ( courtesy of Toyota) I knew I was in trouble when the sump plug was a battle to get off, but damn that oil filter was so over tightened it was ridiculous, my only saviour was making my own tool again like this below from some RHS , tech screws and a length of a ratchet strap
Even using this tool it mangled the filter but they always work. why oh why do they insist on doing the filter so damn tight, Always remember to put oil on the rubber seal of the new filter when you install it too. Screw driver should be your last resort. Good luck!